Category: Inspiration

When You Think There Is Nothing To Give

There is something you can give, even when you think you have nothing.

What comes to the mind at the mention of giving mindset? Have you thought about the idea of giving even when it is glaring there is something that you need the most?

Do have a giving mindset. This should not be determinant of your state of mind.

You can give kind and encouraging words.
You can give time.
You can give a wonderful idea or advise.

There is something you can give.

Do not let others stop you from your being truly who you are.
There wil be obstacles
There will be set backs.
There will be envy.
There might be betrayals too.

Do not let anyone distract you
Do not let anything stop you from living and giving.

Do not let mistakes stop you.

Giving especially when you really have nothing to give is a wonderful gesture.

Do know that giving is rewarding.

When you give, you feel more alive.

Continue to be YOU.
Be kind.

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Keep Trusting God

Most times, it is only when we are a step away to achieve that massive gamechanger that we begin to envisage doubts. This is a very common occurrence and has stopped lots of people from attaining greater heights.

You have spent time, sweat, sacrificed for this very goal only to give up now? It is mid year and you are questioning what you have achieved so far. People around you can show a thing or two they have aced this year but not you.

The social media isn’t helping too. People post their success stories left right and center, even it’s mere studio pictures. Do not be deceived. My Dear, mere being alive and reading this post is something. Look around you, there are many things you can celebrate and post too, if you wish.

Stay focused. You are unique and the best version of yourself. Prioritise your needs. You will achieve your target. Take those steady and consistent actions. Do not give up.

Give no room negativity such as:

Is this worth doing anymore?

Can I forge ahead?

What will happen in the long run if this and that and the other goes wrong?

At times, it appears as if we have forgotten how far we have come. How much we have laboured.

How we have longed for such a time. How much we have sacrificed or let go of.

Can I ask you, why doubt God now?

Since when do you really need to have it all figured out?


I KNOW you do not always have it all figured out.

Simply take that bold step and leave the rest to God.


Just keep trusting and believing in God.

Let’s grow together

@viviensvoice

Gratitude

When reading feels so good

Hello Friends, this post is different from my usual kind of post. I have come up with an intriguing idea. Recently, I have a good friend who have helped me proofread some of my works.

  • I have decided to do a similar thing for other people. Thank you so much Elizabeth, I am very grateful. I want to pay it forward. It reminded me that we can help people in different ways even while miles apart.
  • So, if you have any essay, coursework or article you need help proofreading I can help, in my little way. 
    • I believe that we can be of help to one another. Still in the journey to a better person and to serve you better. Of utmost importance to me is to influence lives positively.
    Do share this post with your friends, in your various networks, you never can tell. Lets help each other. Someone else might feel inspired and come up with another idea to assist others. Please, share🙏🏼
    Disclaimer: I hold no degree in writing related courses but I simply love writing, reading and maybe, proofreading😊
    Lets grow together
    @Viviensvoice
    Grateful Heart ❤️

    Anatomy of Trust- Leadership Skills.



    This is a piece from a Leadership course I attended recently. Thanks to Florence Nightingale Foundation. I had mentioned earlier that I will be sharing some valuable tips.

    Have you heard of BRAVING?

    Anatomy of Trust by Brene Brown is a very insightful piece that enables one to truly understand what trust truly means. The very first time I came across it, I was like there’s no way I’m not gonna share this with you😄

    You need to know it and inculcate it in your persona. I have learnt that there is more to the word trust than mere 5 letters.

    For instance, what are the little things that people can do for you to trust them? Are they worth a spot in your marble jar? Do not ask me what is marble jar 🏺 please😄

    The course made me aware of the weight of the word TRUST. It is very important that the various elements of trust is understood by everyone. Do take a close look at the picture below.

    For instance, in Boundary, it is important that each other’s boundaries are clear, well defined and respected.

    Reliability implies that over time you will still stay true to your values.

    In same way, vault demands that when one shares information with you in confidence you able to conceal it from others. Is their information going to leak?

    Generosity: Are you able to make a general assumption of me in my absence? Can you boldly say I am capable of “doing this and that” confidently in my absence?

    Can I really trust you?

    I await you response in the comment section. Do let me know if you want similar posts. If you like my posts, please subscribe and share links with your friends.

    Let’s grow together

    Viviensvoice.

    Some Decency please



    The other day while in the train, a lady sat just opposite me with all her inner wears on display.

    Apparently, her legs were close but her dress was very short and simply placed at the uppermost part of her thigh. Looking at her felt like an eyesore because she was just there in front of me and you are seeing things you don’t wanna see.

    It was a hardwork.

    I don’t know what most people normally think about when they wear such revealing clothes. The colours of what this particular lady was wearing didn’t not help at all.

    Nowadays, it’s almost part of the norm to have breasts on display. I can tell you my eyes are almost used to it. It’s practically everyday occurrence but panties on display too?

    Nah! It doesn’t look or sound any good at all.

    My plea to anyone reading this post is to encourage some modesty and decency especially this festive period. You never know, you can save a soul.

    If someone is attracted to you they will find you regardless of the degree of nudity you exhibit.

    This brings me to asking, What does decency mean to you?

    How will the younger generation differentiate right from wrong if not taught correctly?

    I will like to know answers.

    If you like this post do check this too.

    Be Nice to People



    In this live we found ourselves, do try your best to be nice to people regardless of the circumstances.

    I have always know this lovely lady from work. We see a couple of times and exchanged greetings. Well, you will understand better if you know how most people in the UK simply mind their business most times.

    It happened that during summer heat wave there was an alert encouraging staff to wear scrubs so, this she came to my unit for scrub as her tunic was so hot for the weather.

    Unfortunately we ran out the other day so when she came my unit was not willing to share with other departments.

    I saw her begging but no one said no; including myself. Minutes later I saw her still wandering then, I called her to the side and gave her one. She was happy and left.

    We met recently and got talking only for her to disclose to me that she lost her other half 7months ago.

    “And you are back to work already?” was the first thing I asked her. I couldn’t believe this lady, her predicament and her courage…

    I don’t know what you are going through but do realise there are people who are going through a lot and still manage to wear a polite face.

    We are all faced with challenges in this world.

    Do remember that the world rotates.

    Be nice to people

    Be nice to self too😄

    Lots of Love,

    Viviensvoice

    P.s:

    This post was originally posted in Pencliff where I’m a co-author.

    Black History Month



    Image Source: scholastic.com

    It is black history month. Luckily, I’ve been able to attend a few events to mark it. I’m black and proud. Looking back from where we started, we have come a long way.

    I’ve decided to share with you a popular poem by a rare gem 💎 Maya Angelou(1924- 2014).

    Still I rise

    You may write me down in history

    With your bitter, twisted lies,

    You may trod me in the very dirt

    But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

    Does my sassiness upset you?

    Why are you beset with gloom?

    ‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells

    Pumping in my living room.

    Just like moons and like suns,

    With the certainty of tides,

    Just like hopes springing high,

    Still I’ll rise.

    Did you want to see me broken?

    Bowed head and lowered eyes?

    Shoulders falling down like teardrops,

    Weakened by my soulful cries?

    Does my haughtiness offend you?

    Don’t you take it awful hard

    ‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines

    Diggin’ in my own backyard.

    You may shoot me with your words,

    You may cut me with your eyes,

    You may kill me with your hatefulness,

    But still, like air, I’ll rise.

    Does my sexiness upset you?

    Does it come as a surprise

    That I dance like I’ve got diamonds

    At the meeting of my thighs?

    Out of the huts of history’s shame

    I rise

    Up from a past that’s rooted in pain

    I rise

    I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,

    Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

    Leaving behind nights of terror and fear

    I rise

    Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear

    I rise

    Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,

    I am the dream and the hope of the slave.

    I rise

    I rise

    I rise.

    One Love

    Viviensvoice

    The Joy of Understanding



    At times strangers become so close like family

    They treat you right and understand your struggles

    They know your pain

    They tend to your needs.

    A family is all about blood

    They should stick together

    Be a leaning shoulder for another

    But that isn’t always the case.

    There are times family fails

    They treat you like an enemy

    They fight you with all their might

    It shouldn’t be so.

    If you have a loving family,

    Stay true to them

    If you have a stranger-turned-family that treats you right;

    Who cries when you are hurt,

    Hold them close to your heart.

    This was originally posted in Pencliff.

    Expect Nothing from Others



    In my recent conversation with a few friends, I have realised that most times the problem is not always the issue. Our mindset goes long way to impact our actions and their various outcomes.

    Let’s say you expect nothing from someone and they give you some money or gift items, you’d appreciate them but if you already believe they ought to give you certain amount of things and at a given time, I suppose the perception won’t be same.

    I know it can be a difficult habit to break but I can tell from my experience that’s it is much better when you expect nothing from anyone and appreciate all that comes your way.

    We are all faced with different challenges and have no clue what the other person is going through. Let be supportive of another and show appreciation. Besides, it’s even much better and rewarding to give than to receive, the scripture supports that too.

    To sum it up, unbiased mindset is a great tool for longevity and a stress free lifestyle. Live and let live.

    Thanks for reading my posts.

    Do comment, I will like to know your thoughts.

    You Are The Reason I write



    I am overjoyed with the amount of support I have received here.

    I am very grateful to each and all of you.

    I have been meaning to do this in a very long time.

    I want to take this opportunity to thank every single follower and subscriber of this Viviensvoice.

    I can’t begin to explain to you how much that means to me.

    You make my dreams come true.

    You are the reason I write.

    You are the drive – when I try so hard to produce stories and post even when I haven’t got enough time.

    On a special note, I’m grateful for your loyalty especially in those times I haven’t got great contents but you still read, like and even comment without hating.

    I wanna serve you better because you all deserve the best.

    I’m amazed by the number of readers I’ve gotten so far.

    I truly appreciate.

    Thank you.

    Viviensvoice keeps growing everyday and I’m truly grateful🙏🏼